A Lifeline for Marriages!
Do you feel lost, alone or bored in your marriage?
Are you frustrated, hurt or angry with your spouse?
Are you constantly fighting? Or, do you simply shut down?
Have you thought about separation or divorce?
Does talking about it only make it worse?
Do you feel like giving up on your marriage?
Marriage is seldom the fairytale we would love it to be. It goes through many life-cycles, which we in Retrouvaille call the four stages of marriage - Romance, Disillusionment, Misery, and Joy. The survival of our marriages is dependent on how well we are prepared to take these cycles on. If you are reading this, and answered yes to any of the above questions, then the chances are that you are stuck in either the disillusionment or misery stage of your marriage. We can help you out of the hole you find yourselves in.
Sadly, 2/3 of divorces are regarded as "soft" divorces - where "having grown apart," or "incompatibility" are usually cited as the reason for the divorce. The reality is different - most of these couples became stuck in the 2nd or 3rd stage just like you, and couldn't find a way out. What they really needed was not a divorce, they needed the help and support of others who have been there, and found their way out. That could have saved them a lot of heartbreak. It could also have saved their children from the devastation of the break-up of their parents' marriage.
Recently-divorced friends may tell you that they have been given a fresh start, and that there has been no adverse affect on their children. Doubtlessly, this is in denial of the effects of their actions on their family. The fact is that divorce DOES affect them badly, they will not be better off. You are unlikely to be better off either, no matter what you tell yourself now, even if you are already in another relationship. You will most likely suffer financial difficulty, as well as health issues. Your productivity at work will be impaired, and you may well find yourself struggling at work. Recognise these symptoms?
Divorce also has adverse affects on your circle of family and friends, and on your community. For the sake of your children, your family, friends and community, give this program a chance - you and your children will most likely be much better off for it. We, and our children were…
Even if your divorce has already gone through, it's not too late. If you're not sure that you are ready to make an attempt at saving your marriages, or if you think your spouse won't agree, give us a call. Even if all trust and respect has broken down, give us a call. You're under no obligation. You don't even have to give your name if you don't want to. We're just here to help you, not to judge you, or to force you into anything you don't want to do. If however you are ready to make that commitment, then register for our next programme now, simply by clicking on "CONTACT US." It will cost you a great deal less than a divorce!
This programme is unique. There is no counselling (that can come later) nor do you have to share your problems with anyone else. Our presenters will take you on a journey through their own lives, and show you how they broke out of the hell they were in, to build a great, new marriage. If they did, so can you. CONTACT US NOW!.
Contact Theo and Trish Botha.
P.O. Box 7082, Newton Park, Port Elizabeth, 6055
Phone / Fax (041) 365 2117 Cell 072 783 6785